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	<title>Comments on: Suicide is NOT Painless &#8211; By Kaz</title>
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		<title>By: Jessie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jessie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jul 2010 20:01:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for your blog. I came upon it on Google and it has been very comforting to me. The  Life is sad at the moment but the comments here are very encouraging.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your blog. I came upon it on Google and it has been very comforting to me. The  Life is sad at the moment but the comments here are very encouraging.</p>
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		<title>By: Afghan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Afghan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2010 19:16:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The thing is suicide knows no color, race, religion, financial or social status. I am especially curious about those suicide bombers however. Also lots of celebrities with all the fame and wealth have taken their lives and others like Jennifer Capriati have publicly said that life sometimes holds no allure for them. Suicide is definitely an intriguing animal that few of us can understand unless we face the same hopelessness ourselves. But the question remains what powerful agent brings about that hopelessness one that carries across so many different lines and situations. Because each situation is different I wonder if we will ever understand it on a deeper more meaningful level.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The thing is suicide knows no color, race, religion, financial or social status. I am especially curious about those suicide bombers however. Also lots of celebrities with all the fame and wealth have taken their lives and others like Jennifer Capriati have publicly said that life sometimes holds no allure for them. Suicide is definitely an intriguing animal that few of us can understand unless we face the same hopelessness ourselves. But the question remains what powerful agent brings about that hopelessness one that carries across so many different lines and situations. Because each situation is different I wonder if we will ever understand it on a deeper more meaningful level.</p>
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		<title>By: housewife</title>
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		<dc:creator>housewife</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jun 2010 17:43:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>suicide&#039;s a bitch. it is not painless and is a horrible thing to happen. no one ever wins.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>suicide&#8217;s a bitch. it is not painless and is a horrible thing to happen. no one ever wins.</p>
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		<title>By: Kaz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kaz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jun 2010 06:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So true.  Every time I see some people driving INSANELY, and people honking at them, i think: WE DON&#039;T KNOW THEIR STORIES.  What if they are trying to see his/her dying mother at hospital?  what if s/he is driving his injured passenger to ER?  We tend to make judgement based on our own reaction, but sometimes I think it is much easier to &quot;LET IT BE&quot; and not to make any emotional reaction based on assumption.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So true.  Every time I see some people driving INSANELY, and people honking at them, i think: WE DON&#8217;T KNOW THEIR STORIES.  What if they are trying to see his/her dying mother at hospital?  what if s/he is driving his injured passenger to ER?  We tend to make judgement based on our own reaction, but sometimes I think it is much easier to &#8220;LET IT BE&#8221; and not to make any emotional reaction based on assumption.</p>
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		<title>By: Kaz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kaz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jun 2010 05:54:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are one of the most comforting women I know.  I LOVE being in your company.  I am sooooo missing Allison&#039;s comfort food, too!!!  

Keep spreading laughter, please!  That&#039;s all we can do! (and we are good at it!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are one of the most comforting women I know.  I LOVE being in your company.  I am sooooo missing Allison&#8217;s comfort food, too!!!  </p>
<p>Keep spreading laughter, please!  That&#8217;s all we can do! (and we are good at it!)</p>
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		<title>By: Sandra Lord: Co-Founder of this Blog</title>
		<link>http://mycandidopinion.com/suicide-is-not-painless-by-kaz-matamura/comment-page-1/#comment-1578</link>
		<dc:creator>Sandra Lord: Co-Founder of this Blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jun 2010 01:31:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kaz, your mother is very interesting to me. :-)

Well, I am glad you wrote about this topic as most people tend to shy away from it. People are hurting for one reason or another and unfortunately, as our world spirals at a faster and faster pace and with less and less personal contact, we don&#039;t seem to notice those who are hurting deeply. Once we hear people&#039;s problems one or two times, our eyes tend to glaze over, we avoid them because we don&#039;t want to be burdened when we have our own problems to deal with. I try to give comfort, encouragement and spiritual support wherever I can. There&#039;s nothing more heartbreaking than hopelessness reflected in the eyes of someone who just doesn&#039;t want to live. Although there is great truth and comfort in the statement, &quot;This, too, shall pass,&quot; unfortunately, it obviously provides very little solace for those who just don&#039;t see the light at the end of the tunnel. For me, instead of rolling my eyes and dismissing someone as annoying, I make a conscious effort to see how I can help. You never know - one word can make a significant or &#039;life-changing&#039; difference. Many thanks for the post.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kaz, your mother is very interesting to me. <img src='http://mycandidopinion.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Well, I am glad you wrote about this topic as most people tend to shy away from it. People are hurting for one reason or another and unfortunately, as our world spirals at a faster and faster pace and with less and less personal contact, we don&#8217;t seem to notice those who are hurting deeply. Once we hear people&#8217;s problems one or two times, our eyes tend to glaze over, we avoid them because we don&#8217;t want to be burdened when we have our own problems to deal with. I try to give comfort, encouragement and spiritual support wherever I can. There&#8217;s nothing more heartbreaking than hopelessness reflected in the eyes of someone who just doesn&#8217;t want to live. Although there is great truth and comfort in the statement, &#8220;This, too, shall pass,&#8221; unfortunately, it obviously provides very little solace for those who just don&#8217;t see the light at the end of the tunnel. For me, instead of rolling my eyes and dismissing someone as annoying, I make a conscious effort to see how I can help. You never know &#8211; one word can make a significant or &#8216;life-changing&#8217; difference. Many thanks for the post.</p>
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		<title>By: Sandra Lord: Co-Founder of this Blog</title>
		<link>http://mycandidopinion.com/suicide-is-not-painless-by-kaz-matamura/comment-page-1/#comment-1577</link>
		<dc:creator>Sandra Lord: Co-Founder of this Blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jun 2010 01:09:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The first time I saw ‘Night Mother, it touched me profoundly because as much as I hurt for the daughter, I hurt even more for the mother, who felt helpless to prevent the inevitable. The person who takes his life is gone, but those left behind could be messed up forever, especially if there’s no explanation. I think when people bring up the word “suicide” in reference to themselves, it is not something to be taken lightly, even if it’s said in a joking manner.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The first time I saw ‘Night Mother, it touched me profoundly because as much as I hurt for the daughter, I hurt even more for the mother, who felt helpless to prevent the inevitable. The person who takes his life is gone, but those left behind could be messed up forever, especially if there’s no explanation. I think when people bring up the word “suicide” in reference to themselves, it is not something to be taken lightly, even if it’s said in a joking manner.</p>
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		<title>By: Sandra Lord: Co-Founder of this Blog</title>
		<link>http://mycandidopinion.com/suicide-is-not-painless-by-kaz-matamura/comment-page-1/#comment-1576</link>
		<dc:creator>Sandra Lord: Co-Founder of this Blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jun 2010 01:07:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The first time I saw &#039;Night Mother, it touched me profoundly because as much as I hurt for the daughter, I hurt even more for the mother, who felt helpless to prevent the inevitable. The person who takes his life is gone, but the loved ones left behind could be messed up forever, especially if there&#039;s no explanation. I think when people bring up the word &quot;suicide&quot; in reference to themselves, it is not something to be taken lightly, even if it&#039;s said in a joking manner.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The first time I saw &#8216;Night Mother, it touched me profoundly because as much as I hurt for the daughter, I hurt even more for the mother, who felt helpless to prevent the inevitable. The person who takes his life is gone, but the loved ones left behind could be messed up forever, especially if there&#8217;s no explanation. I think when people bring up the word &#8220;suicide&#8221; in reference to themselves, it is not something to be taken lightly, even if it&#8217;s said in a joking manner.</p>
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		<title>By: Sandra Lord: Co-Founder of this Blog</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sandra Lord: Co-Founder of this Blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jun 2010 01:02:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Your comment just reaffirms my belief that unless we walk in someone&#039;s shoes, we have no idea what our attitude, response or mindset will be in a particular circumstance. All we can do is speculate and most times we think we are stronger than whatever choices the other person made at the time. That&#039;s why empathy is so important in the big scheme of things.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Your comment just reaffirms my belief that unless we walk in someone&#8217;s shoes, we have no idea what our attitude, response or mindset will be in a particular circumstance. All we can do is speculate and most times we think we are stronger than whatever choices the other person made at the time. That&#8217;s why empathy is so important in the big scheme of things.</p>
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		<title>By: jasmine</title>
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		<dc:creator>jasmine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2010 07:23:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I always think that people who are left behind suffer the consequences of a suicide for a long time. They keep asking themselves if there was anything they could have done to change the situation. This is in addition to dealing with a loss of a friend or a family member. Somehow I feel worse for the close friends and family of the person who has died.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I always think that people who are left behind suffer the consequences of a suicide for a long time. They keep asking themselves if there was anything they could have done to change the situation. This is in addition to dealing with a loss of a friend or a family member. Somehow I feel worse for the close friends and family of the person who has died.</p>
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